Sunday, February 25, 2018

Hope, is there enough of it?


So, first I want to say thank you for taking the time to read my article. I realize that you could be doing a number of things other than consuming my content. I also want to thank you, because by participating, you are helping me fulfill my dream to share my message with others.           
            As I live my life, I am getting better at stopping to appreciate the small things that I may have over looked in previous years. I watch as birds fly by, I notice when flowers are growing, I acknowledge when people do nice things for me that they don’t have to do. I have also started to notice themes that seem to have consistent effects no matter what venue they are seen in.
            The theme that I have been most captivated by as of late, is the same theme that got my idle President Obama elected; Hope. It does not matter if hope is a major part in the plot of a film, or if hope is the theme of a song. Hope seems to strike a nerve in people that other things just don’t strike. For example, when I think about how money effects people, I realize that it can drive some pretty dramatic changes. If a person gets a large sum of money, they may acquire new habits, new friends, or new tastes that are very different when compared to the time before they had the money. They may go on “buying sprees” and lavish vacations. They might do a lot of wild things, but at the end of the day, the money has its limits. Money can only buy so much stuff, if, for no other reason than that there is only so much stuff for sale. Money can only bring so much happiness, because there are only so many things that can be bought to bring happiness. But, when I compare money to hope, the differences to me are astonishing.    
            I find hope absolutely fascinating because there are no limits to what can be achieved when a person has hope. When someone sees hope in their ability to pass a class, there is generally no limit to what they will do to pass that class. When a person sees hope in a relationship, there is generally no limit to what that person will do make that relationship work. When a person sees hope in a job, there is generally no limit to what that person will do for their employer. When a person sees hope in a cause, there is generally no limit to what a person will do for that cause. But what about when a person’s hope is shared with another person? First, the ones that have that type of ability are special people regardless of if they know it or not. Second, when you have a person that can inspire hope in other people, that person also has the ability to drive great change. So, are all people who have the ability to inspire hope given the same opportunities to inspire? The answer, unfortunately is No.
There is true power in the ability to inspire hope in people. It is for that reason that those who are in power work tirelessly to suppress the number of individuals that are able to give others hope. This effort increases dramatically when the hope has the possibility to inspire a change that could fundamentally change their way of life. The easiest example of this concept is the constant barrage of negativity that President Obama faced while in office. His election was a huge deal, but his success could fundamentally change the American population’s view on what the president should look like. So, did he only face the negativity because he was now the leader of a nation, and the opposing party had lost? I’ll have to go out on a limb and say No, maybe even Hell No. Well, was it that he was a black man that was now leading a nation that was brought to power on the backs of slaves? Now, I think we are on to something. Unfortunately, while I want to simply say yes, him being in office meant so much more.  His election evoked a lot of fear but evoked just as much hope. This hope empowered so many people to start having hope that they could be the best, be on top, and all while being unapologetically different. People of color no longer feel that they should have limits to what they can do. Gone are the days of believing that vice-president is good enough, that vice chair will suffice. Gone are the days that the house of representatives is seen as the pinnacle of success. Gone are the days of mental limits for people of color, and just think this change is all powered by a little hope. You gotta love the power of hope.

The Genius That is Shonda Rhimes

The Genius That is Shonda Rhimes

I am a loyal women. It might be hard to get me in – I leave movies that are uninteresting, drop books that don’t capture my attention in the first chapter, and I don’t finish TV shows that don’t hook me in the very first episode. But once I am in, I am a lifer.  This is true, without fail, for most everything in my life. From friendships to lipstick colors, to books to recipes to clothes. I originally started watching Grey’s Anatomy during the third season; my brother was watching one day while we were at my mom’s house for a visit, so I joined him. And that was all she wrote. I went back and watched the first two seasons and now I have watched every aired episode of Grey’s Anatomy at least one time.

Shonda Rhimes is a magical creator and she managed to construct a project that is organically relevant and relatable. I LOVE that Shonda will take it there – she kills babies, people get divorced, people die, she discusses interracial relationships and sex reassignment surgery, she has characters who are atheists and characters who believe in God wholeheartedly, characters who are rich and characters who are poor. She really takes the show through the life cycle.  And what I love most about the show is that every character is uniquely complex and even as the characters grow (many characters that are on the show now have been cast members since season five), they only really become more of who they are. Shonda gives her cast a chance to evolve while staying true to their humanistic qualities that allow me to relate to them. Furthermore, as an African American woman, it is refreshing and inspiring to be a part of a show that casts and praises women and people of color. SO- I support her work. I watched Private Practice when it aired and I have seen and am currently watching Scandal and How to get Away With Murder.

Jerrod and I started watching Grey’s from the beginning last September because naturally, I just cannot date someone who doesn’t know Grey.  Re-watching the show is such a treat. It is like watching an old video of my friends and getting reacquainted with all of their past memories. We are on Season 8 and every season has been good so far -- pretty much every show is still exciting and emotional.  This foundational brilliance is enough to keep me forever. Admittedly, there are some upcoming seasons that ebb more than they flow, but even if there are five mediocre shows in a row, that sixth one always reminds me why I started watching in the first place. It is undoubtedly hard to write fourteen seasons where every show is excellent. And that isn’t life either. It is about the commitment and dependability – staying even when things aren’t perfect. Even when I am mad at Shonda -- like when she killed off Derrick and I ALMOST considered giving up on the show—I still stuck with her. Because I am loyal to her vision and to the show. And, gawd I love Grey’s. It doesn’t seem as though the show is ending anytime soon and I am here for its entirety.
Thank you Shonda for blessing us with the greatness that is Grey’s Anatomy.

Saturday, February 24, 2018

Weekend Joy


So, first I want to say thank you for taking the time to read my article. I realize that you could be doing a number of things other than consuming my content. I also want to thank you, because by participating, you are helping me fulfill my dream to share my message with others.           
            Today was a good day. I was able to spend time with friend and family doing a number of activities. During these activities I realized just how happy I was. I was blissfully aware of just how happy I was and didn’t take it for granted. I realized how fortunate I am to have people that care for me so close in proximity. I don’t mean “I care about your success” type of people, but “I care about your well-being” people. The latter is so much better. Due to time and drinks, I’ll leave it at that.